so I was just reading secrets on cavecanum.com (kinda like postsecrets, but you just type it in instead of sending a postcard) when I saw this secret:
"That whole "if it didn't matter to her she wouldn't talk about it" is a load of crock. Sometimes people talk because they're bored or have nothing else to talk about."
Whoever this person is, i'd just like to thank them. That's exactly how I feel about it too. A lot of people end up talking about things that they say 'don't matter to them.' And then petty bitches are like.. if you don't care, then why are you talking about it?!?!?? Whoever wrote this secret has the right idea.